Why You Shouldn’t Be Employed
It Kills Marriages/Relationships
Employment will undoubtedly be on the top 10 list of marriage/relationship killers. The man loves his wife, but he doesn’t have time to show it. The wife fills neglected and gets suspicious and overreact. On the other hand, the woman loves her husband but her job doesn’t give her all the time she needs to express it. The couple loves their kids and want to spend more time with them but they don’t have the time to put into that project to see that it happens. The parents are afraid to quit their jobs because they are not sure of another one. This are clichés that ruin families because the best investment you can make in a person is not monetary. You have to invest quality time in one another in other to understand yourselves and respect your differences.
Suffocates Your Own Dream
You fulfil the dream of someone else and not your own. Everyone has a dream, something big you want. Getting a job suffocates your dream. This is worse if it’s a full-time job. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t help your boss fulfil his/her dreams. That would make me an enemy of progress. I am saying that if helping someone else fulfil their dreams stops you from actualising yours, you should keep away from that person and his/her vision. Allow people build their lives, in fact help them build it, but don’t allow them indirectly ruin your. You can get too busy tending ones garden that your garden starts to grow weeds. Spend more time building your life than building someone else’s. (Sometimes building someone elses life gives you the experience you need to speed up your own project) I could say that you can get a job temporarily, just for the experience but it can be very enticing. The people of isreal went to egypt because of the famine, but the stayed after the famine. Egypt can become too comfortable that cannan became undesirable. This is how people get entangled with a job they took temporarily. it’s easier to be a slave than to be free. It’s easier to work for a person than to have your own company. If you want to get a job just for the experience, you have to be strong-willed.
Your A builder Not The Owner
You notice that only few masons own their own houses. They build for others but don’t have theirs. They only fulfil the dreams of others and when the work gets done they become dispensable. This is how most employees are, they build the houses of others and might never have theirs.
Do your best to avoid getting a job. If you must get a job its okay, not everyone can be that great.
Don’t get me wrong, everyone have the capacity to be great, but not everyone is ready to embrace the challenges involved.
